March , 2024
Winter recap issue
Becky
a note from our director
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NEWSLETTER
NEW BEGINNINGS!!! That’s what Spring is all about. The first day of Spring was March 20th this year. The sun will begin to warm the winter chills. Flowers will replace the winter rains. Spring reminds us that all is attainable and NOTHING is out of reach. April is the first whole month of Spring and the weather is neither too cold nor too hot. It gives us more time to spend outdoors with people we love. Now is the perfect time to enjoy Spring fun with loved ones. We often need reminders that we can’t pour from an empty cup. Just like flowers, we need to have nutrients and water in order to bloom. So, take care of yourself, give yourself time to grow. And you will find a better version of you waiting ahead. I read this “April Kindness Challenge” and want to pass it along. Smile at a stranger; Write a thank-you note; Bring treats for coworkers; Donate to a good cause; Leave a nice comment online. Which of you will fulfill all of these challenges? The work we do and the lives we lead are both strenuous and rewarding in so many ways. Our community is overflowing with caring and support for everyone around us but we cannot forget to fill our own ‘cup’. We know that completing the kindness challenges above will enrich the lives of others but they also will contribute to OUR best life. At Harbor Supported Living Services we endeavor to enhance the quality of all of the lives we touch including the people that have invited us into their lives to support them, the families of those people, the tireless staff that walk through life with others and the general community we live in. The enhancement of lives around us indeed will enhance our own. The best definition of self-care that I have seen is this: “The active process of making your body and mind a pleasant place to inhabit, by filling your own cup first. This ensures you have enough to give others.” ALWAYS REMEMBER THESE WISE WORDS. There are some special holidays in April that you may not be aware of: 4/10 National Siblings Day 4/22 Earth Day 4/22 National Jelly Bean Day 4/25 Administrative Professionals Day 4/26 National Pretzel Day 4/30 National Honesty Day We all live our lives the way we design and choose to live. Every day is precious and unique and unrepeatable (to quote author Robert Perske). Be responsible for your own happiness because you are the only one who can make it happen. Be inspired and happy!! New beginnings are definitely magical. Trust the magic.
John F. Kennedy once wisely said, “We must find time to stop and thank the people who make a difference in our lives,” and his words resonate profoundly. As we recap the winter’s events at Harbor and start a new year let me say that gratitude should not be reserved for holidays; rather, it should be a daily practice. The time to express our thanks is now! Allow me to share a meaningful story from years ago. Joe, co-founder of CHOICESS, the supported living agency we initiated in Southern California, and I were fervently engaged in public speaking due to our pioneering work in establishing the first supported living agency in California. We spoke passionately to diverse audiences—families, individuals with disabilities, traditional residential service providers, regional center staff, and advocates. Our message emphasized the right of all, irrespective of the severity of their disabilities, to choose supported living services over congregate living if it better suited their needs. After one such event, a mother approached me at a regional center meeting. She wanted to express her gratitude, thinking I might not recall that particular presentation. However, I did remember. She shared that I was the first to ignite her interest in supported living services for her son when others had deemed him "not ready." Filled with hope, she recounted the positive impact my words had on her family. Her son had successfully transitioned to supported living, escaping the challenges of a group home. Her heartfelt hug and tearful expression left an indelible mark on me. This encounter fueled my dedication to advocating, educating, and sharing stories with renewed vigor. Over the past 33 years, Joe and I have been fortunate to receive similar expressions of gratitude. Every instance strengthens our commitment. Recently, I stumbled upon a coaster with a powerful message, "I can't believe I still have to protest this stuff." Little did we foresee, in 2024, debates persisting on the cost of high-quality supports, eligibility for supported living services, and the standards for inclusive and person-centered services. As we navigate the unexpected challenges, we draw inspiration from the individuals and families choosing to create their homes independently in California and across the nation. In closing, I wish you all a beautiful, peaceful, and joy-filled 2024. Cherish your loved ones, express gratitude to those enhancing your world, and, on behalf of all of us at Harbor Supported Living Services, thank you for being part of our journey.
Rebecca Donofrio
You don't move on after loss, but you must move with. You must shake hands with grief, welcome her in, for she lives with you now. Pull her a chair at the table and offer her comfort. She is not the monster you first thought her to be. She is love. And she will walk with you now, stay with you now, peacefully. If you let her. And on the days when your anger is high, remember why she came, remember who she represents. Remember. Grief came to you my friend because love came first. Love came first...
Alikan Abusaidi 1/28/63-1/21/24
Love Came First Donna Ashworth
In loving memory...
Dearest Ali, It has been six short weeks since you crossed over into your bright and peaceful forever. You left us with an empty place in our hearts but your spirit fills it up if we only listen. That disarming huge smile of yours will always bring us such happiness. As will remembering you flashing that smile and beckoning us with your thumbs up or waving finger to come and give you a hug. Who could resist the open arms you called us with when you wanted another hug? You really love hugs and we know you will have a steady supply of big warm ones where you are now. Although you were a man of few or no words, you were very able to let us know how we could help you or make you happy. And you did the same for us when we needed help or a reason to smile. We will continue to depend on your spirit to bring us joy, smiles and happiness through our memories of you and the time we spent alongside you. We know you care about all of us and we will always deeply love and care about you. You are a part of our family and always will be. It doesn't matter how many weeks pass since you left because your light continually reminds us that loving is the cause of our broken heart and that memories are the way to bridge the space between us and you. You will be deeply missed, always. ~ The Harbor Family
It has been a pleasure working alongside Anjali and witnessing her growth in her role, cultivating deeper connections with those she supports. Anjali consistently demonstrates eagerness to engage in various activities, bringing an abundance of enthusiasm. Her natural ability to motivate others is truly commendable. Anjali, a kindhearted individual, aspires to assist those around her in becoming their most authentic and best selves. I have observed her evolution since the inception of her position here, witnessing her initial uncertainties about being a caregiver due to her young age and personal growth journey. Over the years, she has become an integral part of LeRoy's support team and others she collaborates with. Every encounter with her brings a smile to my face. Anticipation always builds for the remarkable performance she'll make on every year's camping trip. Her gift of song is complimented by her wonderful personality. Anjali spreads love and joy to everyone she meets. Harbor is fortunate to have someone like her, radiating positivity. We've witnessed Anjali's transformation into adulthood and as a dedicated support staff member, and I eagerly anticipate our continued collaboration and her ongoing growth. Anjali, you are a rockstar, and we appreciate you! - John
SPOTLIGHTS
from the lighthouse
Megan
We are celebrating Megan this month! A cherished client who infuses our small community with her vibrant energy and rhythmic beats through her passion for percussion instruments. Highly regarded by those providing support, Megan's unwavering enthusiasm makes her a vital member of our village. Megan's love for percussion instruments contributes to her unique personality. Whether exploring beats alone or sharing joy with others, her rhythmic prowess adds a harmonious layer to our community. Megan's musical talents not only showcase her creativity but also inspire others through her monthly music classes for the Harbor community. In addition to musical pursuits, Megan excels as an aunt to her niece Evelyn. A friend notes, "She always finds a way to teach Evelyn something, whether it’s numbers or colors, or how to share and say thank you." Megan's versatile engagement in learning activities enriches the environment for all around her. Described as a "sweet soul" radiating warmth, Megan is treasured by service providers and fellow clients. "Megan has brought talents to share with the community, and they enjoy learning from her. She is a marvelous learner and a great friend," expresses a team member. Megan's kindness, musical talents, and enthusiastic approach create a positive impact, making her an exceptionally valued individual within the Harbor family.
Anjali
we have a calendar on our website with current event details. Save it to your bookmarks & reference throughout the month!
Every Friday - 12:00 PM 979 17th Ave Join in for a swim every Friday at the Simpkins Family Swim Center & Live Oak Community Center in Santa Cruz, CA. This time is set aside for low-stimulation activities, providing a quieter environment. Feel free to ask for special equipment at the desk. There's no need to sign up; just show up and check in with the desk, mentioning you are with Shared Adventures, and the cost will be covered! Enjoy a delightful warm pool time at 88 degrees, with a ramp, pool chair, and lift available.
Celebration of Life ALikan Abusaidi
Sunday , March 3rd 12:00 PM VFW Post 7263 - 2259 7th Ave Join us in celebrating the life of Alikan, our cherished friend and family member. Bring your favorite memory or picture of Alikan to contribute to a special book we're creating to preserve these moments. Tacos831 will be serving delicious food, and we'll have a variety of refreshments including drinks and dessert. For any questions, please contact us at 831-462-6194 ext 0. Also, kindly RSVP through the invitation. We look forward to sharing memories and honoring Alikan together.
Megan's Music Jam
Friday March 8th 1:00pm - 2:00pm Harbor Office Have you ever wanted to learn how to play percussion instruments or brush up on your skills? Megan Oatey will offer her monthly percussion class again during March. Megan will be bringing instruments like maracas, triangles and much more. Come have a great time learning and bopping at Megan's Music Jam.
Swim Time
Harborsls.org/calendar
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Upcoming Events
Fran Palesoo 1/18
Kevin Dehority 3/29
Randy Carillo 3/19
Mitchell Reyes 12/18
Nichole West 11/1
Alikan Abusaidi 1/28
Charlotte Charboneau 1/18
Jamie Blankenship 2/4
Kelly Jo Hebert 2/26
Robin Blake 2/1
Katherine Bell 11/25
Janie Earle 1/31
Leroy Clarke 2/16
CLient Birthdays!
November Through MArch
harborversaries
Staff Birthdays
celebrations
Edith Martell - 1 year Itzi Sanchez - 1 year Aubrey Sonnenschein - 2 years Claire Denevan - 3 years Christin Garaan - 4 years Dean Morozowski - 12 years Kai Hamill - 1 year Anjali Maziarz - 2 years Cynthia Velasquez-Gomez - 1 year Aracelia Antuna - 2 years Abbey deDiego - 2 years Shanie Lane - 4 years Frances Berlanga - 7 years Leslie Phillips - 9 years Letty Guevara - 21 years Alen Kiflezgi - 21 years Yolanda Martinez - 1 year Christina Imperio - 10 years Kyle Eaton - 2 years Fallon Feurtado - 5 years Patrick Slavin - 7 years Ernest Bey - 8 years Clay McRoberts - 9 year Tina Eason- 23 years!!!
Clay McRoberts- 11/4 Anjali Maziarz- 11/13 Stephanie Urbina- 11/13 Kati Graves- 11/17 Deyanna Currier- 11/17 Molly O'Brein- 11/23 Dean Morozowski- 11/27 Aubrey Sonnenschein-11/27 12/2- Vanessa Cowans 12/15- Ron Souza 12/17- Leslie Phillips 12/21- Ashley Ferreyra Samira Totah: 1/1 Daniel Jimenez: 1/ 4 Dana Keating: 1/ 6 Rosie Griego: 1/ 7 Shanie Lane: 1/9 Tina Eason: 1/13 Alan Hernandez: 1/21 Maria Elena Garcia: 1/30 Reem Amer: 1/30 Mary Smith: 2/2 Paris Penaranda: 2/6 Jesse Henri: 2/12 Claudia Guerrero: 2/12 Christina Garaan: 2/15 Connie Ponce: 2/20 Ernest Bey: 2/21 Leticia Guevara- 3/1 Patrick Slavin- 3/ 4 Claire Denevan- 3/ 5 Oscar Garcia- 3/ 6 Adair Arreola- 3/ 7 Sheridan Smith- 3/ 8 Justin Mosley- 3/ 9 Alen Kiflezgi- 3/29 Jo Midkiff- 3/30
Fun in the Photo Booth
Holiday Party!
Ski Trip!
Annual Tahoe Excursion
Chris K. - Justin and Leroy - Jaime - Claire - Susie and Jasmine - Victor and Allen - Nichole - Nichole at SPCA - Patrick, Leroy and Claire
Captured Moments
Winter WOnders
Danny - Kathy and Holly - Kathy and Santa - Kathy, Holly, Cindy, Susie and Rosie at the Holiday Train
Peter Meetings captures: Randy, Dylan and Leroy - Victor and Charlotte - Susie and Becky - Fallon and Jaime - Alikan - Nichole - Claire - Chris S.
Leroy and Anjali - Dylan - Victor and Allen - Jaime - Danny - Danny - Chris K. and Daniel - Anya and Holly